In Nigeria, the end of the year often brings with it a unique rhythm—a steady exodus from the bustling cities to serene hometowns. This annual migration, fondly referred to as “going home for Christmas,” has become a tradition steeped in nostalgia, drama, and pure excitement. It’s a time when family ties are rekindled, cultural heritage is celebrated, and the essence of village life is reloaded with the stories of returning sons and daughters.
The Nostalgia of Homecoming
For many Nigerians, the thought of returning to the village evokes a flood of childhood memories—dusty roads, familiar scents of native delicacies, and the echo of old folk songs sung under the moonlight. Homecoming isn’t just a physical journey; it’s an emotional reconnection with one’s roots.
“Every December, I look forward to returning to my village in Enugu State,” says Chinenye Eze, a banker in Lagos. “The joy of seeing my grandparents, eating fresh palm wine, and walking barefoot on the red earth reminds me of who I truly am.”
This nostalgia fuels the excitement as many urban dwellers prepare for the pilgrimage home. From buying gifts for family members to stocking up on food supplies for feasts, the journey is more than a vacation—it’s a celebration of identity.
The Drama of the Return
Village homecomings aren’t without their share of drama. Relatives who haven’t seen one another in years often find themselves navigating age-old family rivalries or the subtle competition of success stories.
“You have to be prepared for the aunties and uncles who ask, ‘When are you getting married?’ or ‘When will you buy a car?’” laughs Adewale, a tech professional based in Abuja.
There’s also the curious spectacle of “city people” adjusting to village life. From fumbling with native languages to grappling with the lack of modern amenities like 24-hour electricity, returning city dwellers often provide comic relief for villagers. Yet, these moments are part of the charm, bringing laughter and bonding opportunities.
Cultural Festivals and Reunions
The highlight of village life during the festive season is undoubtedly the cultural festivals and family reunions. These gatherings are vibrant displays of traditional music, dance, and attire.
In Igbo communities, the Iwa ji (New Yam Festival) often coincides with the homecoming period, giving families the chance to come together in thanksgiving. For the Yoruba, the masquerade festivals light up the villages with color and excitement, while in the north, the Durbar showcases regal horse processions and traditional Hausa-Fulani culture.
These festivals serve as reminders of the richness of Nigeria’s heritage, giving the younger generation a taste of their roots and the older generation a chance to pass down traditions.
The Village Meetings and “Ogas at the Top”
For many, returning to the village also means attending the obligatory community or family meetings. These gatherings, often held under large mango trees or at the village square, are where issues affecting the community are discussed.
These meetings reveal the unspoken hierarchy of the village, with returning elites often taking on the role of benefactors. Contributions to community development projects such as building schools, drilling boreholes, or fixing roads are subtly expected from those who “have made it in the city.”
“The village meeting is where you see the true power dynamics play out,” says Ngozi, who returned to her hometown in Anambra State last year. “The uncles who left the village decades ago suddenly become the village ‘ogas at the top.’ It’s both amusing and heartwarming to see how much they are respected.”
Rediscovering Simplicity
One of the most fulfilling aspects of the homecoming season is rediscovering the simplicity of village life. Away from the rush of city life, many find solace in the slower pace of the village—waking up to the crowing of roosters, enjoying meals cooked with fresh ingredients, and spending evenings under starlit skies.
For others, the village becomes a place of healing and reflection. “I always return to my village in Benue when life in Abuja gets too stressful,” shares James, a young entrepreneur. “The peace and quiet here help me recharge for the year ahead.”
The Unifying Spirit
Ultimately, the Nigerian homecoming experience is about unity—bringing families together, fostering connections, and bridging the gap between urban and rural lifestyles. It’s a reminder of shared history and collective aspirations, where every laugh, story, and meal shared adds to the fabric of village life.
As the December season approaches, the allure of the homecoming beckons again. For every Nigerian planning their journey back to the village, one thing is certain: they’ll return to the city not just with stories to tell but with a renewed sense of belonging.
Indeed, village life reloaded is not just about the past—it’s a celebration of identity, culture, and the enduring spirit of community.
